Jaime Bronstein, Founder of The Relationship Expert
Name: Jaime Bronstein
Founder: The Relationship Expert
In one sentence, what problem do you solve and for who?
I help people to not to suffer; I work with singles, couples, and those going through breakups/divorces to learn to heal, grow, overcome blocks, and build fulfilling relationships rooted in clarity, confidence, and authentic connection.
What's your story?
I've always been a romantic; my name in French ("J'aime) means "I love," so it was a foreshadowing of my life's work. I feel grateful that I had the honor of watching my parents' love as I grew up, I was the "boy crazy" girl in school, and then experienced mature incredible love as I got older (which inspired my book "MAN*ifesting!" Because I know that real love exists, my work is to inspire people never to settle and to know there is someone for everyone. From my first psychology class in high school, I knew that I wanted to be a therapist/coach. After getting my BA in psychology and Master's in Social Work and working for ten years, I realized that the clients who came in who were single, struggling in their relationship, or going through a breakup or divorce were the ones I was the most inspired to help, so I decided to brand my work as just relationships. Now I've been in practice for over twenty years and can't imagine having any other career!
What does BEING a FoundHer mean to you?
Being a FoundHer means standing in my power, using my voice, and building something that reflects my values and purpose. It’s leading with intuition, compassion, courage, and unwavering belief in what’s possible. It’s about creating a space where people feel seen, supported, and inspired to step into the love, confidence, and possibilities they deserve. It’s building a mission-driven business that empowers others—especially women (I also have male clients)—to trust themselves, honor their worth, and transform their lives.
How do you support other female founders and women in business?
I am part of the Forum, which is so great because I try to help as much as possible when someone has a question I can answer! With the Forum and in general, I make introductions, help to promote their businesses, collaborate, celebrate their wins, and offer help if someone is struggling with something I can help with.
Who is a female entrepreneur you look up to and why?
Gabby Bernstein! She has done a fantastic job at scaling her business. I think her background in PR helped her from the start. The best part about her as an entrepreneur is that, no matter how successful she becomes, she remains very humble. I met her at a conference, and she didn't rush off or act like she was on a higher level. It's so important to be approachable when you are successful, and she definitely is. She is very business savvy and creative. I took her "Best Sellers Masterclass" course. What she did was take the recordings and interviews from an in-person event and turn them into a course. It was during COVID, so I'm sure it did very well. I look up to her also because she is riding the wave. She has the audience, so she keeps on doing the things- she started a podcast, she keeps on writing new books, etc! It's a business, but you can tell that she genuinely loves to teach, and I can relate, so I look up to her for all that she has done and continues to do!
What are the first five things that you did when you were starting your business?
I got therelationshipexpert.com domain. It felt uncomfortable, and, of course, I'm not perfect and I don't know everything, but I went with it because I really wanted it to be clear what I do and who I bring in as clients
I started an Instagram account that was a business account
I got an LLC
I started an email list
I got an EIN
What is something you do differently from the industry standard?
It's important to me to be 100% myself and to know my worth. Because I am not "salesy" and don't worry about whether a client will hire me, I think it sets me apart, as people can pick up on desperation energy. Many therapists and coaches sit and listen but don't actually help their clients make lasting changes in their lives. I bring my intuition and spirituality into my work. I studied spiritual psychology for 3 years after I got my master's degree. Having the tools to work with people at that level made the work I do SO much more impactful. I know how to help people heal, to learn how to show up authentically, to connect with their intuition, to not stay in victim mode and let their past determine the rest of their lives, and ultimately how to live life through soul-centered eyes and rise above; helping them to have an elevated and healthy perspective on life which changes EVERYTHING in their life for the better- not just their relationships!
What are three strategies you use to market your business, grow brand awareness and generate bottom line growth?
MEDIA!!!! Being in the media has helped my credibility. Although I am on the news and do radio spots once in a while, when it comes to SEO for my website, it's the articles. I've been in over 200 articles since 2018, and because my website is hyperlinked, it naturally boosts my site to the first page of Google.
My book "MAN*ifesting!" Writing a book is not a money maker; however, it is great for awareness, credibility, and opportunities. It's also helpful when being interviewed to make references to content from my book!
Being a speaker! I have spoken at tons of in-person and virtual events, and it's always worth it because it brings about awareness, opportunities, and new clients.
Collaboration- whether it's podcast swaps or IG Lives, it always helps both of us get in front of each other's audiences.
What was an obstacle you overcame to get your business where it is today?
I spent five years trying to bring “MAN*ifesting”* into the world, determined not to self-publish but repeatedly hitting walls that left me discouraged. About a year in, a family friend in the industry told me I’d “never be Iyanla Vanzant” (not that I wanted to be), and even after he connected me with a publisher who said "no," I kept going (after a good cry and never feeling smaller in my life!).
I eventually found an agent, rewrote my proposal after her feedback, and waited a whole year as she pitched every publisher she knew. When the final feedback came—“no one is looking for relationship books”—I felt defeated, especially after an almost-deal with a major Christian publisher who published "Girl, Wash Your Face" by Rachel Hollis, which sold millions of copies (she didn't know I was Jewish, and the publisher apparently didn't know either). This deal would’ve required a Christian co-author, which would've compromised my integrity, so I didn't go with that option.
I spent a month feeling discouraged, but I kept going back to my "Why!" I was writing this book because I knew it would change lives for the better, and I had a message to share, things to teach and inspire, and an impact to make. If I had to self-publish, I would, but I felt that a reputable publisher would reach more readers.
A month or so later, after parting ways with that agent, something in me felt a tiny spark of hope. Days later, while bar-hopping with female clients in NYC looking for men, and asking men where the single men were, I thought maybe we should be asking girls where the single men go, so we went over to two friends sitting at the bar at Avra. The one who lived in the city gave us some great suggestions for where to go next in the manhunt, and then, at one point, during a conversation about what we all do for work, she casually mentioned she had just “walked a book into Simon & Schuster.” She didn’t even know I was writing a book. That serendipitous moment turned into an introduction from her and her co-agent, "Johnny," and ultimately into a publishing deal… and, a year and a half later, “MANifesting”* was distributed by Simon & Schuster.
My message to anyone who needs some inspo..... NEVER GIVE UP! Trust that what is supposed to happen will happen in the end. Put EVERYTHING you have into something and then surrender. But you have to take action- you have to go the extra mile and work at what you want to accomplish- it's not just going to happen without work, and it definitely doesn't happen overnight. Also, ask for help! You can't do it alone! We all need support in this world :)
What are three actionable tips you would give with other women who want to start a business or are just getting started?
You HAVE to be passionate about your business. Being an entrepreneur is not for the faint of heart. It is hard work, and you put in a lot of hours that you don't get paid for. When you want to give up, always go back to your "Why!" Why are you doing this? If you are passionate about what you are bringing into the world and how you can serve people, you will keep going- never give up, the world needs what you have to offer!
When you are going to hire someone, always make sure to talk with someone they have worked with in the past. I learned the hard way why that's SO important! You will save a lot of time and money!
Post on social media as often as possible. I realize the power of it. For years, I wasn't posting enough, and now that I am posting more, it's helping with awareness!
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